Working with the Echo Society it is important to have a personal awareness of the effects of narcissistic abuse - necessary to understand the type of behaviour a narcissist manifests and the toxic effect it can have. I have experience of parental, sibling, partner and workplace narcissism, which although everyone’s experience is different – does mean I have some understanding of the trauma it can cause.

 

I started my training in Humanistic counselling, then concentrated on Psychodynamic work for my Masters.  I now work in an Integrative way, also incorporating elements of CBT, Mindfulness and NLP, so that I can tailor work to fit the specific needs of the client.

 

I have been counselling for nearly 20 years, having trained at Goldsmith’s College, University of London, where I got an M.A. in Counselling.  Previously I’ve worked in many different settings, with people of all ages, interests and abilities, in a variety of situations including a women’s refuge, college, school etc.  I am also a dyslexia specialist teacher/assessor, so very aware of the strengths and difficulties of having an SpLD.

 

In counselling it is important to be aware of different beliefs and traditions – to admit where there is lack of knowledge and to strive to increase awareness, be open to new ideas, whilst valuing each individual. No one should be at a disadvantage because of any perceived ‘difference’ - difference and diversity should be celebrated.  

 

I also believe that when listened to, without value judgement, everyone can be empowered to work towards overcoming their difficulties.  To feel respected and valued is an essential part of someone’s appreciation of their own self worth.