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  Associate Counsellor / Psychotherapist
– Narcissistic Abuse & Relational Trauma (Remote, UK)

Status: Self-employed Associate
Location: Remote (UK-based)
Hours: Minimum 6 hours per week

About The Echo Society

The Echo Society is a leading UK‑based, lived‑experience‑led organisation offering trauma‑informed, specialist support for adults impacted by narcissistic abuse and coercive control. Working with this client group requires emotional steadiness, clinical nuance, and a deep alignment with Echo’s values of emotional safety, autonomy, compassion, and integrity.

Founded in 2016 (formerly LNASG – The London Narcissistic Abuse Support Group), Echo provides:

  • Specialist online counselling for adults affected by narcissistic abuse, coercive control, and relational trauma, across the UK

  • Psychoeducational resources, including a 6‑week recovery programme

  • Workshops and outreach to build resilience and community

  • Training for professionals

  • Advocacy and awareness‑raising to illuminate hidden forms of domestic violence

Our approach is grounded in lived experience, clinical expertise, and a commitment to emotional safety. Every aspect of the service — from intake to therapy to safeguarding — is designed with the needs, nervous systems, and healing journeys of those impacted by relational trauma in mind. We meet every client with empathy, validation, and non‑judgement.

Our Values

Our work is guided by a clear, trauma‑informed values framework:


• Emotional Safety — creating spaces where clients feel secure, seen, and never judged
• Autonomy — honouring each person’s pace, voice, and choices
• Compassion — meeting every story with empathy and care
 Integrity — holding ourselves to the highest ethical and relational standards
• Collaboration — supporting one another through shared learning and reflective practice

Our Specialist Therapeutic Focus

We understand the profound and often hidden impact of narcissistic abuse and coercive control. Our confidential online counselling service is specifically designed for adults affected by:

  • Narcissistic abuse

  • Coercive control

  • Relational trauma

  • Adult children of narcissistic parent/s

  • Narcissistic partners, ex‑partners, siblings, friends

  • Narcissism in the workplace

We also support clients navigating:

  • Post‑separation abuse

  • Parallel parenting

  • Child contact manipulation

  • Family Court stress

  • Legal abuse

Every practitioner at Echo brings both robust professional training and a deep, embodied understanding of these dynamics.

 

Who This Role Is For

This role is ideal for counsellors and psychotherapists who specialise in complex trauma and narcissistic abuse and want to work fully online within a specialist, values‑led service.

We are particularly interested in practitioners experienced in working with narcissistic abuse, coercive control, C‑PTSD, and complex relational trauma in adults.

This role is suited to practitioners who feel called to depth work — those who are emotionally attuned, steady, and able to hold space for clients navigating long‑term relational trauma.

If you value autonomy, reflective practice, and collaborative learning — and are drawn to work that is relational, nuanced, and grounded in emotional safety — you may find a meaningful professional home at The Echo Society.

You’ll work independently with clients while being supported through team meetings, group supervision, reflective practice, peer‑to‑peer connection, and steady one‑to‑one managerial support where needed.

What It Takes to Work with This Client Group

Supporting those impacted by narcissistic abuse and coercive control requires:

Trauma‑Informed Competence

  • Understanding of PTSD, C‑PTSD, attachment trauma, trauma bonding, and nervous system regulation

  • Somatic sensitivity and attunement to body‑based trauma responses

  • Ability to work within Echo’s therapeutic frame (validation, pacing, psychoeducation)

Relational Depth

  • Capacity to hold space for identity erosion, chronic self‑doubt, shame, and survival patterns such as fawning or people‑pleasing

  • Ability to manage therapeutic endings with steadiness and clarity

Legal & Systemic Awareness

  • Familiarity with the Domestic Abuse Act 2021

  • Understanding of post‑separation abuse and coercive control

  • Awareness that clients may also be navigating other forms of domestic abuse, including economic/financial abuse, isolation, and systemic coercion

  • Ability to maintain clear boundaries around Echo’s non‑forensic remit (no legal letters, evidence, or court involvement)

  • Awareness that Echo is not a crisis service and confidence in signposting appropriately

Emotional Steadiness

  • Groundedness, strong boundaries, and reflective capacity

  • Ability to remain regulated in the face of complex trauma narratives

Essential Qualities & Experience

Narcissistic Manipulation Tactics

  • Experience supporting individuals impacted by narcissistic abuse and coercive control

  • Understanding of manipulation dynamics such as the DARVO pattern: Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender, gaslighting, stonewalling, withholding, silent treatment, triangulation, smear campaigns, push‑pull patterns, emotional invalidation/chronic invalidation

  • Experience supporting clients navigating complex family dynamics, including adult–child and parent–child relational trauma

Psychoeducational Recovery Approach

  • Ability to integrate themes such as boundaries, shame resilience, grief, inner child work, and nervous system regulation

Professional Standing

  • Diploma in Counselling/Psychotherapy

  • Registration with NCPS, UKCP (or equivalent)

  • Commitment to ongoing CPD and reflective practice

Clinical Competence

  • Experience working with trauma, C‑PTSD, attachment wounds, and relational trauma

  • Understanding of trauma bonding, fawning, and identity erosion

Inclusion & Ethics

  • Cultural humility and identity‑aware practice

  • Strong professional boundaries

  • Familiarity with GDPR and secure data handling

  • Awareness of the ethics of lived‑experience practice

Technical

  • Private, secure space for remote sessions

  • Reliable internet and digital competence

  • Competence using secure, encrypted platforms for notes and communication

All practitioners must work within their professional body’s ethical framework and UK GDPR.

What We Offer

  • Comprehensive induction, including a 6‑week psychoeducational training completed before or alongside initial client work

  • Free group supervision and ongoing trauma‑informed support

  • A collaborative, values‑led team environment

  • Secure, user‑friendly online systems

  • A supportive, emotionally safe environment that honours practitioner wellbeing and sustainable pacing

Organisational Details

  • Self‑employed, sessional role

  • Minimum availability: 6 hours per week

  • Minimum commitment: 12 months

  • 3‑month probationary period

  • Practitioners are responsible for their own invoicing and self‑employment admin, in line with Echo’s internal guidance

How to Apply

To apply, please use our General Enquiries Contact Form and select “Counselling Role” from the dropdown menu.

Once we receive your message, we will reply with instructions on how to securely provide your CV and a brief statement about why you feel called to this work.

If shortlisted, we’ll request:
• Proof of professional membership
• Sample Therapeutic Agreement (to understand your clinical frame and approach)
• Professional Indemnity Insurance
• Enhanced DBS / PVG / AccessNI
• ICO registration
• Relevant CPD certificates
• Two professional references

 

We warmly welcome applications from practitioners of all backgrounds — especially those with lived experience.

If this role resonates with you, we warmly welcome your application.

 

The Echo Society (limited by guarantee).

Registered Company Number: 10330786.

 Registered Address:

71–75 Shelton Street

Covent Garden London WC2H 9JQ

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